SORE LOSER

Ok, so I am a sore loser when it comes to playing chess with my husband. Why? b/c after almost 4 years of playing with him I lose every time. I mean, it starts out good then it goes bad and I get mad. I get so mad i want to cry. I also get mad at my husband b/c he then will say something stupid like "you want to switch sides?" He hates seeing me mad, you would think that after almost 4 years of me being a sore loser, he would just not as me to play.